Join Sheryl Paul, a counselor informed by the Jungian depth psychological tradition, and her co-host Victoria Russell, as they dive into the realms of our inner worlds and explore actions we can take to grow more self-trust and self-love. These bi-weekly episodes will provide guidance for diminishing fear and shame, embracing sensitivity and creativity, and approaching life with curiosity and compassion.
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Friday Feb 16, 2024
Friday Feb 16, 2024
Today’s episode was inspired by a recent post that Sheryl shared on Instagram about trauma collisions in longterm relationships.
In this conversation, we explore what trauma collisions are (and are not), how they differ from arguments, and how we can become more mindful and skillful in responding to them.
Sheryl underscores the role of self-awareness in uncovering the understory of a trauma collision, finding compassion for ourselves and our partners, and creating new, healthier patterns.
We discuss demon dances, childhood wounds, and the core human longing for both separateness and intimacy.
References:
- Sheryl’s IG post about trauma collisions
- Love and Awakening, John Welwood
- Essay “Intimate Relationship as Transformative Path” by John Welwood
- A Little Book on the Human Shadow, Robert Bly
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Attachment theory
- Hold Me Tight, Sue Johnson
- Sue Johnson’s workbooks and video series
- Rilke quote about those in marriage being "the guardian of the other's solitude.”
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